Sunday, August 28, 2011
what to do what to do
We all have "friends" in our lives. You have the friends that no matter what you do they will always have your back or help hide the body if needed (BTW totally joke for those who cant tell).. Then you have your going out buddies the ones you call when you are just looking to kick your heels up and have a good time or if needed hold your hair back while you find out what a hot dog and Jose taste like for the 2nd time that night. These are what I like to call forever friends. they are there thru the good and the bad and no matter what will have your back . Even if it means ripping off there shoes to beat someone because they mooed at you (and yes that has happened) Then there are what we will call wannabe friends. They call you when they want something and never seen to have courtesy to chat about you. I am not saying I wanna talk until your ear bleed about how awesome I am (even thou I could lol) The worst thing these "fake friends" do is to call you just when they want something you have... They either want money, ride, a place to crash or worst of all crimes they want your liquor... one of my biggest pet peeves with fake friends is when they call to bitch (and most the time its about someone else behind there back) If I have an issue you can can take it to the bank im coming to settle this woman to woman... My question is it ok to call out a fake friend...... I know I could just drop them but then all you are doing is creating drama for yourself... I really wanna say put on your big girl panties and face the day. You may not like the out come but damn it you can then be called an adult... Ok that's my rant for the day and its 3 am so if you see some spelling or grammar issues well blame public school and naps. Oh but still give me your thoughts on these fake friends... Keep them or lose them?
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Jody, you have to decide whether it is healthy for you to have Any of your friends. If they are draining you emotionally then drop them. If you think that they could be a good friend but need some venting time/crazy time lol then talk to them and then go from there. You dont need to worry about what "they" want. Honey this is your life and if they are causing you undue stress just get rid of them. I know that sounds harsh but you probably know that Im not one to get emotional over dropping someone like a bad habit.
ReplyDeleteLet me preface my comment by saying that I can be cold-hearted about cutting people out of my life so that probably colors my response. I feel life is too short for bad friends. It will be more pain/trouble in the end. I know from experience that it can be easy to allow any good times to overshadow the bad ones and make it difficult to see a person for who they are. But it doesn't make the person any less toxic. I know it's not easy to just ignore a person in hopes that they will take a hint and it doesn't always work. In those cases I think you must confront that person. I understand the desire to avoid drama but keeping this person in your life is bringing drama anyway.
ReplyDeleteI am so agreeing with you heather and taco.. I need to cut the bad people out... But as mean as I pretend to be I am way to nice to people... I need to learn to say no myself
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